When I was about eight or ten years old, my Mom and I took a
trip out West with her brother and cousin. The four of us packed into cousin
Ed’s car and drove to see relatives in
Texas, through New Mexico
to White Sands
National Park, and on to Colorado to visit
cousins LeRoy and Majel in their house in the mountains.
It was a great trip. Most photos show me smiling in shorts, red
tube socks, and a new cowboy hat bought along the way. (And yes, those are Mork & Mindy suspenders in the photo above.) We stopped at all sorts
of interesting places, like a train museum, a battleship, and American Indian
sites, and I got to buy a pretty Indian doll and a pink gingham bonnet like
Laura Ingalls wore. We were Out West, and immersed in it.
Visiting LeRoy and Majel was a highlight, and I knew their
place was special when we drove up a small highway into the mountains through
thick pines and turned into their driveway, which was framed by a large wooden
arch with their last name spelled out in horseshoes. Wow, a real ranch, I
thought. Real horses and cowboys.
And LeRoy was just like his name sounds – a cowboy-boot-wearing “good ol’ boy” with a super-slow drawl who smiled constantly and
got a twinkle in his eye every time he made a joke. And he let me ride a horse!
I put on my cowboy hat and he helped me climb on for a photo. He and Majel took
us to Golden for Buffalo Bill Days, the Coors Brewing Company (where I got
water while the adults got free beer samples), Pike’s Peak, the Royal Gorge,
and at night Majel made yummy homemade dinners and we sat afterward on their
porch and wondered what it would be like to live there with the horses and the
mountains.
Years later LeRoy brought his family to see me when I was
performing in Branson, Missouri, and they showed up as a surprise
in the audience. And when I got settled in Vegas, I started including him on my
Christmas card list after Majel passed away. The first time I did so, he was so
happy that he called me. Even though I hadn’t heard his voice in nearly ten
years, I recognized him immediately, his slow, sing-song “Hello, Shannon, this is cousin LeRoy” carrying his smile to me
over the miles.
LeRoy passed away recently, and this weekend was his
memorial, back in Indiana with family and friends who reminisced about his
gentle ways. I’m glad he was part of my life, too.